Grandma Hale

5 months ago we said good-bye to my dear Grandpa Hale.  I had not lost a grandparent in a long time and it was tough to see him go.  This week my Grandma followed him back home.  She was in complete kidney failure and lasted about 6 weeks longer than the Drs thought.  Because our family knew what was happening and that she was dying, we were able to say good bye to her.  The last time I saw her, she was not well.  She did not even know I was there.  But I stood over her and watched her.  I kissed her.  I knew that would be the last time.  My mom sat by her side and held her hand as she took her last breath.  I am so happy that she was not alone when she passed.  She wanted to go home.  Her own mother passed 60 years ago and she wanted to see her after such a long seperation.  Her husband of 69 years was waiting for her as well.

Her grandkids shared some memories at her funeral.  This was mine...

"One of my most cherished memories of Grandma Hale was from 11 years ago.  It was one of the happiest days of my life; my wedding day.  I arrived at the temple a little early and had time to sit peacefully in the bridal room.  I was the only wedding that morning so it was quiet and not many people were around.  I remember sitting in my wedding dress and temple clothes with 2 very special people;  my mom and my grandma.  I remember feeling so happy that I had them both by my side on this special day.  That made a lasting impression on me.  My grandma had lived her life in such a way that allowed her to be sealed in the temple.  She then passed on her testimony to my mother, who also made the choice to be sealed in the temple.   The life my mom led directed me on the right path for me to start my own eternal family.  I will always remember my grandma Hale there by my side as I started that family and will be forever grateful for the righteous life she lived."

Both my grandparents had a rock solid testimony of the Gospel.  That is why I have the gospel in my life today.  And I could ask for nothing greater.  I thank them both for that blessing.  I feel so much peace that they are together, they are happy and that they will be standing there waiting when the rest of us go home.  I love you both.